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The Effects Of Porn Addiction On Your Marriage (Strictly For Men) Women Stay Off This!

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The Effects Of Porn Addiction On Your Marriage (Strictly For Men) Women Stay Off This!

admin June 26, 2017
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The inspiration to write on this particular topic came as a result of a problem a friend’s wife brought to my notice. Strange things are happening and the institution of marriage is becoming fragile by the moments.
Do not entertain admirers; do not keep online female friends who are out to ruin your marriage. They distract. Just keep them at an arm’s length. But have it at the back of your mind that the Bible admonishes us to cut off our hand if that same hand would commit us to the slavery of sin.
Marriage in this generation has become a delicate institution, it has become so fragile that a little threat from your addiction to porn materials could fracture your marriage beyond needless pains.
How could a woman whom you met, courted and even had sexual knowledge of before marriage suddenly become replaced with porn in your life and you expect no retribution? No woman can tolerate that except perhaps a bisexual woman who entered into marriage contract with you simply to have children. Only such a woman would leave you to your designs and tastes.
Being addicted to porn instead of enjoying the real deal will cause you to derail from having natural love for your wife. You will now begin to bore holes in your underwear for the strange women you now prefer their statures and physical attributes over that of your wife. The major thing this addiction does to you is erode your natural love for your wife. That first love would begin to diminish to the extent that you will hardly ever initiate sexual intimacy with your wife. A healthy woman would be there observing your withdrawal from her arms of love and would always take you to task on this particular matter. That will be the reason why she would start to investigate you by going through your handset(s) and leafing through your diary – if you have one – and would go to any length to stop you from using your laptop where you use your modem to browse through the sites that encourage pornography.
The onus falls on you to be patient with your wife by taking time to teach her all that you like doing in bed. This is if she knows little and next to nothing about marital sexual life and its demands on her. She might stand in opposition to some certain stuff she would deem dirtyyou may ask of her, but impress it on her that those stuff make your love for her grow in leaps and in bounds. This is marriage, and it is a life-time relationship which needs the very best of all that makes it work well to be brought on the table.
Don’t leave anything to chance. Do away with pornography and make your marriage work.
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